Elongated diamonds have a way of catching attention. They feel elegant, expressive, and slightly unconventional, which is why they show up so often in the custom engagement rings and wedding rings we design at Alexis Gallery. Along with their appeal comes a recurring point of discussion during diamond selection: the bow tie effect. It is a visual trait that people tend to have strong opinions about, and something we provide education on.
The bow tie effect refers to contrast that appears across the centre of certain elongated diamonds when light does not return evenly to the eye. This can create a darker bow-shaped pattern through the middle of the stone, hence the name. Sometimes this contrast can be influenced by the viewer’s own head and shoulders blocking incoming light.
Let’s walk through what creates the bow tie effect, where it shows up, and how to think about it when choosing a diamond engagement ring.
Diamonds change character depending on their environment. Bright retail lighting can soften contrast, while neutral daylight often reveals it more clearly. Movement adds another layer. When a diamond is rotated, healthy light return causes contrast to shift and soften, usually creating a sparkle effect. A bow tie shadow that stays dark from most angles tends to interrupt that sparkle.
Bow tie visibility is influenced more by a diamond’s face-up shape than its carat weight. Elongated shapes place more visual emphasis on the centre line, which can make contrast easier to notice, especially when the stone has a very high length to width ratio. Highly elongated shapes also force the angles of the facets to become more extreme making exceptional cutting more challenging. Two diamonds can share the same carat weight and show very different bow tie patterns because weight can sit in depth or width. What matters is how the diamond presents from the top and how the cut returns light through the middle.
Bow ties are not listed or graded on standard diamond certificates. Laboratories focus on measurable attributes such as clarity, colour, carat, and cut. With that in mind, an Excellent to Very Good cut grade does ensure that the ‘mathematics’ of the stone are as close to perfect as possible, removing the risk of a strong bow tie. As part of our curation process, our diamond experts assess and quality check every stone we consider by hand, ensuring any undesirable qualities like bow ties aren’t present. During your diamond viewing, you’ll see your diamond options on hand and in motion, either in person or through detailed HD videos and comparisons.
At Alexis Gallery, diamond selection is never just about numbers or what we have ‘in stock’ (spoiler alert, we don’t have any). We approach curation one by one, with each individual client. Based on your concept, we bring in stones specifically for you, so we’re always fitting stones into your vision, not compromising your dream based on what’s available in a display case (we don’t have those either).
When we’re curating, we’re thinking about how a stone behaves, how it feels once worn, and how it fits into a larger design story. Our experience with custom engagement rings and wedding rings allows us to evaluate diamonds beyond certificates alone. We work with lab-grown and earth-mined diamonds, review stones in varied lighting, and design settings that respect each diamond’s character. If you are exploring a custom piece, contact us! We are always happy to walk through these details with you and help you choose with clarity and confidence.